Congratulations! Guess you heard it a million times already.
What bride is there, that is not happy landing a man of her fantasies or having a celebrity studded, talk of the town type of wedding? Not you and definitely not me!
However I am going to be talking about some of of the things some brides probably don't get to be told or that some would rather close their ears to, that is Life after the Wedding!
A lot of hip and activity is put into planning and organizing modern weddings while little is done about the marriage proper.
Most brides-to-be, will tell you that, they were told "This is your day, you have to make it as beautiful as you want and enjoy it to the full" , "Spare nothing for your day, it's once in a life time"
There is only one thing wrong with the above statements, it suggests marriage to mean the DAY of your Wedding, which of course we know is false because, you just got started on your wedding day..
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The farthest, most pals and family members go in trying to determine whether the couple will be happy in the marriage will be to ask " Do you love him/her?" As if to say that Love is all the ingredient it will take for a successful marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble; NO DARLING, LOVE IS NOT ALL IT TAKES!
I heard these same words when I started my wedding plans, and Yes I had a lovely wedding! But then I also heard that there is a difference between "the wedding" and "the marriage", so I prepared for both.
Don't get me wrong, I have not been married for long to prove it all, but just as I did all it took to make sure I had the wedding of my dreams, I am also going to do all it takes to make sure I have the marriage of my dreams. This is where a lot of women fail.
Stay on, we will crack this!
What bride is there, that is not happy landing a man of her fantasies or having a celebrity studded, talk of the town type of wedding? Not you and definitely not me!
However I am going to be talking about some of of the things some brides probably don't get to be told or that some would rather close their ears to, that is Life after the Wedding!
A lot of hip and activity is put into planning and organizing modern weddings while little is done about the marriage proper.
Most brides-to-be, will tell you that, they were told "This is your day, you have to make it as beautiful as you want and enjoy it to the full" , "Spare nothing for your day, it's once in a life time"
There is only one thing wrong with the above statements, it suggests marriage to mean the DAY of your Wedding, which of course we know is false because, you just got started on your wedding day..
The farthest, most pals and family members go in trying to determine whether the couple will be happy in the marriage will be to ask " Do you love him/her?" As if to say that Love is all the ingredient it will take for a successful marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble; NO DARLING, LOVE IS NOT ALL IT TAKES!
I heard these same words when I started my wedding plans, and Yes I had a lovely wedding! But then I also heard that there is a difference between "the wedding" and "the marriage", so I prepared for both.
Don't get me wrong, I have not been married for long to prove it all, but just as I did all it took to make sure I had the wedding of my dreams, I am also going to do all it takes to make sure I have the marriage of my dreams. This is where a lot of women fail.
Stay on, we will crack this!
