Thursday, May 10

Would You Defend Your Spouse Even If They Are Out Rightly Wrong

Our question today! Would you defend your spouse everywhere and every time even when you know that they are so wrong?



Mr and Mrs Smith against the world.

                                               
I am asking this question because I know that couples disagree a lot. But in my understanding, it should be you and your spouse against the world. Sometimes this is somewhat hard in situations where you know that your spouse is the wrong one in a fight, not necessarily physical combat but maybe a fight for rights or opinion.

I took some time to get the opinions of a few happily married folks and here is what they said;

"If it is outside, there is no way I won't defend my husband, even if he is very wrong. But its a different case when we are indoors, I will tell him how wrong he is or was" -Jin .O

"I will defend my wife even in front of our kids, when we are alone I still have to be careful and gentle in correcting her, so we can sleep in peace"- D.E

"It really depends on the situation, if its an altercation and I notice she is the wrong one, I will just take her away from the scene before I do any other thing but I will never let the other party know that I thought she was wrong" -Dave.

So apparently, most couple will defend each other in public. But I was wondering if the situation will still be the same where the said disagreement is between your spouse and your family member(s) and your husband or wife is damn wrong?

If you would defend your spouse, in what type of occasions and why, any instances where you have already done so?

Please lets hear you!